Are millennials really cool?

We all are aware of the fact that this new generation that is millennials have subverted the whole trend of what people followed before us. And they consider themselves very cool being a new generation. You know it’s like a trend these days all around globe that all the millennials are night owl and they think waking up early is just a old notion of their grandparents. But really is this true? Are mellinials really cool?

Well i don’t think so they are cool enough. What they are doing is following a wrong path and considering it to be real and right. They are so much lost being online that they don’t live in reality anymore. They think world is all about just being active on social platforms and that’s what life is. But that’s totally wrong. Being active on social media is only right until you’re using it in a useful manner. But that’s not the case here. Nowadays, not just millennials but people spend most of their time online just scrolling through stupid news feeds and memes with regular check of what others are doing….. instead of focusing on themselves. You know this social media has turned people in a way like these days Everyone is trying to be everyone……and that’s damn true. No one is focusing on finding their own talents, building their character or learning anything new that enhances them but instead they are stuck in finding out what celebrities are doing? or what they are wearing? all of them just wanna change themselves and want to become that someone else or celebrity. Really? Why don’t you focus just on finding yourself. This case is same as that everyone is waiting for any superhero to come up and save them instead of saving themselves becoming a real superhero.

I’m not saying social media is not a good platform or it’s of no use. Of course it’s made for the people to be socially connected, to spread messages and awareness, to reduce toxicity in the society, to change old notions of people and some people are of course using it in the right way. But our so called super cool millennials are actually fool. They converted these platforms into a whole trash. I really think that social media platforms are not useful anymore. Nowadays it’s more about comparing two people, trolling someone based on their looks and body, getting more followers and likes, showing off richness and posting their “feelings” online just to grab attention and sympathy. And that’s all social media is left with. It has consumed the brain and time of people and in result it has blocked their creativity.

And if you want to change your life from mere human to successful one, you better quit social media or limit it. Limit it to use just once a week or so. But don’t waste your time online. Because only thing that we’re getting from these places is – Nothing.

And most importantly it’s the most fakest place you’ve ever been. Everything there is just a show off. It looks attractive and useful though all it’s made for is to grab attention of people. That’s the reason it’s made attractive as hell that you get addicted scrolling through it. And that’s the thing that makes people get stuck at these places instead of coming out in real world. What we learn from real world is incomparable, and social media nowadays is just wasting time of people because that people are not using it in right way. And the reality is quiting social media will not make you less cool instead you’ll be glad at the end of the day. And also maintaing distance from these places don’t makes you go boring or you’re not threw out of track of new trends that’s what people mostly fear about but believe me this won’t happen. You’re never going to go out of trend. Stay connected to world, check daily news but don’t scroll. It’s waste.

But what’s really important here is people who are thinking they are hella cool are actually fool. So don’t be fool. Give yourself time, make yourself better, learn new things, use your time. Don’t let time just passes by, if you don’t want to end up regretting. Come out of that fake world that just covers the reality of people and real world. Let’s face reality.

Step out. Believe me world outside is beautiful. ❤️


Difference between waiting and patience

It’s often misunderstood. Having patience and waiting for someone aren’t same things. I don’t think so.

Let’s take a very simple example for clarifying what i wanna say. Imagine you’re sitting at the platform and you’ve already booked your tickets for the next train arriving but somehow train get stuck somewhere and it’s announced that it’s coming late and no one knows how many hours you’ve to wait there at the platform. And you’ve no other option but to sit there for hours. Now there are two types of people one who are going to go crazy and they’ll keep shouting for hours and also keep complaining about the train. But still they’ve to wait until train arrives and they’ll end up saying it was a bad day. But let’s move to second type of people who’ve to wait too like the first one but not like them, they are going to sit calm and use this time in doing something useful instead of complaining. And of course train is going to arrive late. Both of them reached late at their respective places and also both of them waited for long hours but… of them just waited and other patiently used that time doing something else. There’s a difference man.!

Now you know what i wanna say. You’ve to wait sometimes in life. Actually this happens, everyone has to wait at some point in life. It can be anything, for any person, for any job or any other dream. You know you’re not going to get everything easily it’s not movie, it’s life. You’ve to wait, you’ve to work hard, you’ve to make yourself better. Yes you’ve to. But you don’t have to just wait. Don’t just wait but you must have patience along with it. Having patience while waiting is way too different from just waiting. Waiting keeps you stuck at the same place, it stops your growth, it makes you worried, it makes you go crazy, it destroys you inside and left you being hopeless but on the other hand having patience while waiting keeps you calm and happy. You keep growing, you get better every day, you keep learning and most importantly amid all you stop expecting from people. And you know what’s best in this, that even if you’re not going to get what you were waiting for, you’ll not regret. I promise you’ll not. Because in this jouney you’ll find best version of yourself. It will convert you in someone you never expected to be. And you don’t need aynone else to complete you after you reach at this point.

Make sure this time you’re not just waiting for something or someone. Keep that waiting aside and focus on yourself, on loving yourself, in making yourself better every single day. Don’t expect anything. You’re going to get what you deserve. Don’t worry. Now keep the destination aside and enjoy the beautiful journey.

Don’t just wait, have patience. You know what i mean…. You know exactly what i wanna say😉


Is it possible to become a stranger again?

It often happens that some people enters your life and get more closer every single day but suddenly whole things take a back turn and that person again becomes a stranger for you. Is it really possible?

It’s very hard to forget or ignore the person who was once closest to your heart. But that’s really not in anyone’s hand to control situations like this.

In cases like these it’s not just your fault but both people serves equally. Or may be not sometimes. But here question is not about whose fault it is in becoming a stranger again but the real topic is that person was once a part of your life, was once your reason to smile, was one who cared about you so how it’s possible to hate the same person you loved once? That’s not possible.

Life is journey and people are going to come and go in this journey… Same as you’re traveling in a train and passengers behind you keep changing ….. Only difference between those passengers is that some leave very strong impact in your life, you become very close to each other and some passes by like regular people….. But even if the closest person is leaving, you can’t do anything about it and can’t even hold them forever with you…. You have to let them go. Please don’t get stuck. Clouds never stay, let them flow. Most beautiful moments of life still awaits for you.

And only responsibility that lies on you on this point is instead of hating or cursing that person all you need is to value that person…. That at least they became part of your journey, your life and made it more beautiful. Just remember the happy moments with that person, those laughs, those cutest stupidity and your reason to smile. That’s it. You do not need to become a stranger again just keep that person in your heart and value those beautiful moments and thanks them for every single memories they added and now time to move on with those memories in your heart and mind.

So you don’t need to be a stranger if that person still lives there as a beautiful memory of your heart. Adore those moments and let them go.

I am thankful for every single people who came in my life😊and thankfully none of them are stranger to me. There’s special place for all of them in my heart ❤️


What is happiness!

Hello everyone. I am again here to share my views about what exactly happiness is for me. Hope you can relate with this.

Have you ever wondered about this? That what is happiness? Ask yourself this question that what is happiness for you? You may reply that it’s your family or friends or your kids or anything. And i don’t deny this. Of course all our happiness comes from the people who surrounds us.

But  Is there something that makes your soul happy, that makes you happy inside individually.

It’s all on you that you choose joy or sorrow… for you.

No one else can make you happy except YOU. It’s all in your hands and it’s you who decides your mood, your happiness. I mean you may have noticed the people who always complains about his/her life and keep counting their problems but on the other hand some people always stay happy doesn’t matter how bad their conditions are. It’s not that people who always stays happy are very rich and successful. Even the richest suffer with lots of complications in their lives. This means it’s not money or any stuff that makes us happy or sad.

So again question arises that what is it that makes us happy inside? As I said early it’s just you.

Let me take a very simple example for this. Do you have ever prepared your one day “to do list” and finished it all at the end of the day. If you did this then I don’t need to explain how much satisfied you feel by this and how happily you sleep that night. And that really shows that happiness is not about big things but even a little things can make you happy…. It’s up to you that how you look at those little things.

Happiness is not that you won a million dollars lottery but it can be as simple as waking up early, ticking your to do list, making your bed, cooking yourself, reading something new, eating with your family, sketching, watering plants or doing anything you love to do. I don’t think it’s that hard as people sometimes assume it to be. Believe me it’s not hard at all. It’s just in your hands, all you need to do is realise that it’s you

I hope you guys are getting my point about being happy. Let me try again.

Do you have noticed that helping someone whom you don’t even know sometimes makes you happy suddenly. Being happy is as simple as helping someone whom you don’t even know. If you have not felt this yet than try helping homeless people on your streets with anything that you can afford. And I bet it’ll made your day.

Let’s get to the point that happiness is the most important thing that decides who you are and believe me it affects your health and Personality too. And if you are happy always try to make others happy as well who surrounds you.

This is what I think is happiness or you can say it’s my secret to live a happy life. And it can be yours too…….Remember It just starts with most simple things in your life.

Hope you all are safe and living in the best way possible. Thank you so much for reading this. I hope you took this simple thought with you from this page. Have a great day.

😊😊Be happy and healthy. 😊😊


No judgement anymore.

Hello everyone,✌✌ hope you all are enjoying your time in a best way. I am back with this blog to share my mind and heart again with you all.

So this topic is not for something super big purpose but it’s just a most important lesson of my life that came out itself on my this birthday this year.

I have lots of stories, ideas and thoughts to share but I feel the most important one is this one that is must for everyone to apply in their lives.

Most of the people tackles with problems like not being confident, nervousness, not able to speak in public or being afraid all the time. These things happens only for one particular reason. And that’s fear of being judged….. You may not believe but Yes it’s truth. People are always afraid of being judged but why?

This fear of being judged is impossible to overcome until you know your importance. It only happens because people never know what they can do and what’s there importance… Instead of being aware of reality they get stuck in thoughts like what he or she might be thinking about me. And that’s the biggest concern of most of the people nowadays…

And also it’s not that easy to come out of these continuous thinking of your brain but it’s also not that hard to come out of it.

I mean people always wonder about why other people are judging them but the reality is nobody else is judging you until you don’t want…… It again seems like that these things are just said but it’s reality.

You are judged by others only because you judge yourself. Yes you judge yourself all the time and keep thinking about “their” opinions instead of your own opinion…. And it’s impossible to come out of those fears until you won’t stop judging yourself.

As I’ve always believed that life is most beautiful and most adventurous journey that we all have in common so why not enjoy this journey. If you will start counting problems of your life of course it may go on increasing………and same phenomena is applied in case if you’ll start focusing on all the positive things of your life….. It’ll go on increasing and increasing day by day….. So all I wanna say is it’s in our hands what our next day is going to be so why not we focus on the happiness and Positiveness around us.

Once people understand this, believe me half of their problems get already sorted. To remove all those stupid fears out and enjoy your life to the fullest what you need to do is to just stop judging yourself.

Feel free to do anything your heart say to do.

Enjoy every single moment of your life to the fullest and do whatever your heart says you to do without paying attention on “their” opinions. It’s your life, it’s in your hands so use it according to you not according to others…. And one more thing don’t ever judge yourself for whatever you do (because it all starts when you start judging yourself)….

Love and believe yourself. ❤❤

Stay safe and happy. 😊😊


Love the world you’re on..

Hello everyone, i am back again with this blog to share my heart through my words among you all. Hope you all are enjoying this quarantine with your family.

So we just celebrated 50th anniversary of Earth day. This day always brings a kind of awareness towards our mother earth. And i especially wait for this day every year just to do something for our mother nature. But this year we can’t do anything as we all are not allowed to go out but but but i am never out of ideas guys.

So this year i want you all to support me. Don’t worry it’s nothing expensive, all you need to do is to just show your interest in this work. And it’s done.

You all are are already aware of the fact that due to lockdown all over the world people are inside their houses, none of the vehicles are running on the roads, all the factories are closed, you know what I am trying to say…… Yes, you got it…..this is the best time for Mother earth to heal herself.

Okay, I want to make things clear. Of course I know that this pandemic disease has ruined various lives but just to make things positive I am changing your perception this time. See yourself, we got this time, time that we always used to wait for. Everyone used to wish to get some free time to spend time with their families, to complete their work, to learn new things, to do their hobbies and many more. So this is that unexpected time what we all were waiting for. But it’s not only us who prayed for free time to rest…….. there’s one more soul that prayed the same. It’s our mother earth..and she is using this time to rest and heal her body.(It’s just my view and I don’t want anyone to get offended) Don’t worry she never wants anything bad for us. Believe God. Everything is going to be normal self don’t worry and enjoy this time.

Okay so let’s come to point what we have to do for our planet and home earth. So just do a little favour for your mother. I want you all to plant some trees just once a year and that is on your birthday. Don’t you think that’s too easy to afford. Of course just once a year. And it means a lot. Think about how number of trees are going to increase if everyone will start doing it. So this is what you all need to do (me too) this year, if we really want earth to be healthy this time. I just want to say love the world you’re on. Once you will start loving❤️ your home (earth), you will start caring for it too.

Thank you so much for reading this all. Celebrate your every day as earth day and help your mother to get healed. Sorry for the late post.

Stay healthy, happy and safe.. 😊And love ❤ your planet 🌍.


What I learnt from The Alchemist……

So here I am once again back with this wonderful blog. In last some days i read a really nice book called “The Alchemist” by Paulo coelho. And i didn’t expected that it’s going to be this good. So this fiction is filled with so many life lesson along with it’s wonderful story.

So let’s get started.. with my personal favourite lines of this book. That will not just inspire you but will also teach you a way to live your life more beautifully.

1..In the one of the initial pages, writer wrote about the world’s greatest lie…here it is: that at a certain point in our lives, we lose control of what’s happening to us, and our lives become controlled by fate. That’s the world’s greatest lie.”

2..And also mentioned about the world’s greatest truth : there is one great truth on this planet: whoever you are, or whatever it is that you do, when you really want something, it’s because that desire originated in the soul of the universe. It’s your mission on earth. And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it”

3..God has prepared a path for everyone to follow. You just have to read the omens that he left for you.”

4..“We are afraid of losing what we have, whether it’s our life or our possessions and property. But this fear evaporates when we understand that our life stories and the history of the world were written by the same hand.”

5..“Everything on earth is being continuously transformed, because the earth is alive… and it has a soul. We are part of that soul, so we rarely recognize that it is working for us.

6..One of the character (camel driver) explained very beautifully that why he is always happy..:“Because I don’t live in either my past or my future. I’m interested only in the present. If you can concentrate always on the present, you’ll be a happy man. You’ll see that there is life in the desert, that there are stars in the heavens, and that tribesmen fight because they are part of the human race. Life will be a party for you, a grand festival, because life is the moment we’re living right now.

7..One of the Alchemist was believed to have power to see future but he refused to tell about future by saying “If good things are coming, they will be a pleasant surprise,If bad things are, and you know in advance, you will suffer greatly before they even occur.”

He extended his words by saying “When people consult me, it’s not that I’m reading the future; I am guessing at the future. The future belongs to God, and it is only he who reveals it, under extraordinary circumstances. How do I guess at the future? Based on the omens of the present. The secret is here in the present. If you pay attention to the present, you can improve upon it. And, if you improve on the present, what comes later will also be better. Forget about the future, and live each day according to the teachings, confident that God loves his children. Each day, in itself, brings with it an eternity.”

8..It’s not what enters men’s mouths that’s evil, It’s what comes out of their mouths that is.”

9.. And this is the line written there that explains about the confusion created in our mind to choose between our love and destiny..“You must understand that love never stops a man from pursuing his destiny. If he abandons that pursuit, it’s because it wasn’t true love… the love that speaks the Language of the World.”

10..Heart plays very important role for us to reach our destiny..and this is how writer explained the importance of our heart :Remember that wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure. You’ve got to find the treasure, so that everything you have learned along the way can make sense.

Listen to your heart. It knows all things, because it came from the Soul of the World, and it will one day return there.”

And you should never stop or ignore the voice of your heart. “You will never be able to escape from your heart. So it’s better to listen to what it has to say. That way, you’ll never have to fear an unanticipated blow.”

11..And this is what heart said :“Even though I complain sometimes,it’s because I’m the heart of a person, and people’s hearts are that way. People are afraid to pursue their most important dreams, because they feel that they don’t deserve them, or that they’ll be unable to achieve them. We, their hearts, become fearful just thinking of loved ones who go away forever, or of moments that could have been good but weren’t, or of treasures that might have been found but were forever hidden in the sands. Because, when these things happen, we suffer terribly.”

And why we should always trust our hearts :“Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second’s encounter with God and with eternity.” We should always talk to our heart about our own feelings because they give you the bestest advice.

12..This is the sun’s reply on asking what is love? :“From where I am, I can see the Soul of the World. It communicates with my soul, and together we cause the plants to grow and the sheep to seek out shade. From where I am—and I’m a long way from the earth—I learned how to love. I know that if I came even a little bit closer to the earth, everything there would die,and the Soul of the World would no longer exist. So we contemplate each other, and we want each other, and I give it life and warmth, and it gives me my reason for living.” comment your own answer what you think love is??

And this is what boy replied to sun: “It’s not love to be static like the desert, nor is it love to roam the world like the wind. And it’s not love to see everything from a distance, like you do. Love is the force that transforms and improves the Soul of the World. When I first reached through to it, I thought the Soul of the World was perfect. But later, I could see that it was like other aspects of creation, and had its own passions and wars. It is we who nourish the Soul of the World, and the world we live in will be either better or worse, depending on whether we become better or worse. And that’s where the power of love comes in. Because when we love, we always strive to become better than we are.”


How to use this quarantine period….

You all are already aware about COVID-19 and i don’t need to explain. This disease is pandemic and it has affected people worldwide. This virus is not that deadly but it spread too fast. And as there is still no vaccine prepared, only way to control this is to quarantine.

And most of the people around the world are in quarantine this time…

So let’s find a way to fully enjoy this time instead of feeling bored anymore..

So let’s get started…

1. Spend time with family.

It’s seriously the best option anyone can tell. People always complain that they are too busy doing their jobs that they can’t spend time with their family… So that’s it this is the time you can really use to make your father, mother, sister, brother, wife, or kids happy. Spend very nice and happy time with them… You’ll not even notice and one day it will become your memory…

You can prepare a dinner or lunch for them. Or sit together sip a coffee and have a sweet talk together. Play games together like I used to play ludo with my siblings from last some days of my quarantine 😁. Cook together, eat together

2. Complete your all pending work.

Yup. This is a nice and free time you can use to complete all your pending work. You can complete your office files, or can complete your homework if you are student. Also use this time to study students. You are lucky to get this free time for study.

3. Learn painting 🥰

Yes, if you are interested in painting or sketching you need to start it now.

This time is perfect to learn to paint or to improve your painting. Even if you are not interested try to draw or sketch anything on your drawing pages…. I bet you’ll feel relaxed and more happy.

4. Make cards

You can also use your creativity to make cards for your family members or friends. This is such a cute way of expressing your love to them. Or if there is any upcoming birthday prepare card for birthday girl or boy.

5. Decor your room

It starts to feel very boring to look at the same things of your room for longer years. so let’s recreate your room. Create wall decors, change curtains, shift older furniture or you can do anything to want to change the look of your room. Give it a try and feel more fresh. New look of your room will refresh your brain.

6. Learn to cook.

Cooking is the most basic need. And everyone must know how to cook. And if you already know to cook then give try to new dish.

It feels so good to cook and eat yourself sometimes. This is going to be a good use of this time.

7. Learn to play guitar.

This is really amazing idea to spend this time to learn any new instruments. Guitar is just an example you can learn any new instrument like piano, flute, violin, keyboard etc. And you already know you don’t need to go out for this, you can learn it anytime online. Use these online services for real this time.

Playing instruments is very good use of your time, it also improves your concentration power, decision making skills and makes you happier.

8. Play games.

No one used to suggest this but playing game keeps your body and mind more healthy. Not too much but playing your favourite online games for one to two hours is not that bad and especially when you are free.

9. Learn a new language.

This is seriously the best idea I can give you right now. Start learning a new language. This is going to be really fun and new adventure of your life. Yes, learning something new is not less than any adventure.

Learning a new language boosts your brain power, sharpens your mind, improves memory, enhances decision making, improves academic performance, your first language is improved, increases networking skills and many more.

Sometimes we need to learn new things to make ourselves happy and satisfied. That’s it. You don’t need any travelling reason to learn new language. Give it a try. And thanks me later. 😃 You can do it online too.

10. Start YouTube or your own blog.

Don’t you think it’s a nice idea to create your own website or join YouTube. It’s up to you what your topic is going to be but this is the best time for your startup.

I am not saying you are going to be super famous but at least start to check your own skills and to make this life adventurous.

11. Start exercising.

People always complain that they never get time to spend time doing exercise or yoga. But now no reasons left. You are home and also you are free this time. So start exercise or yoga from today on daily basis. And not just you, engage your whole family in this.

So, take oath to be healthy and strong “now” and start making yourself and your whole family healthy to be happy for rest of your lives.

12. Read a book.

If you already love reading books then add a new book in your read next list. And if you don’t read, please try reading a book this time. This is great use of your time.

Reading books is my personal favourite pass time after playing guitar 😊

13. Write diary

Yes! This is great idea. Pick up your pen and diary and start writing. This is fun! Write whatever comes in your mind like your personal past experiences, your happiest memories… Or you can also write your own poem, quotes or thoughts.

Write whatever you can and discover your hidden talent. Writing about yourself helps you visualize your life more better and let you know much more about your own self and that’s great.

14. Watch movies at home.

Of course it’s not going to feel like theatre but watch it on your tab Or TV with whole family. Do it, I assure it’s not bad idea. Have fun in your own room with family.

15. Start gardening.

If there is any extra space between your house and boundary, you can better use that space to plant trees. Or just place little plants at that place or at your terrace and take care of them. This brings lots of happiness your way.

Hey people these are not the only things you can do right now. It was just some of the ideas that were floating in my mind.

Don’t say this quarantine period is boredom but use it in the best way possible. Do whatever your heart says you to do. Spend time online, watch shows, watch Netflix, eat more, sleep more, start daily exercise, cuddle with your pets, children or do anything you want but don’t just sit. 😊

Just want to say- keep learning something new every day to make your life more adventurous. Hope you like these ideas.

Stay home stay safe ☺😌


The Journey Begins

Thanks for joining me. In this journey you will learn the art of living a healthy and happy life. 😊😊

If you want wealth and happiness in your life, you can’t do this without health….


Life is the most beautiful journey that we all have. And we all are so grateful to be a part of this journey. So stop worrying any more and enjoy every single day of your journey.

Be happy and healthy. 💕😊